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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I’m in the minority here but I think you could reach out and say you heard her mention the kids being with their dad and you hadn’t realized they were separated. I’d offer to be a sounding board if she ever needed one and leave it at that. I think that’s offering support without prying. It’s not like you heard it through the grapevine.[/quote]

Op here. This is basically what I was thinking of texting, but I am paying attention to the many people saying not to do anything as I think more about this.

The thing I return to in my debates with myself is that I think I'd feel bad if people knew something like that about me but didn't say anything. I tend to isolate when sad and that would make me feel more isolated. I hope she did tell people closer to her and is getting support. I don't know if mentioning her kids were somewhere else was her way of telling the group since otherwise she didn't need to say anything at all. She's pretty quiet.[/quote]

Don't do this!!!!  She chose not to share more with you.  If she talks to you about it, great.  If not, you now know the living situation for logistics.  Do not listen to the socially inept pp.[/quote]

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