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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OK, well I am biased here, but what we are hung up on is that he is a total a-hole. I absolutely do NOT want to pay for trial, but with the way the first attempt at mediation went, I am worried that we will end up there. [b] I have a very specific list of things i want[/b] and I’m just wondering if mediation is the ONLY way to get what I want, or if it’s possible to give a judge the list of things I’m looking for and actually end up with some of them…. Or is a court decision going to be more of a blunt instrument, like “sell everything and split it according to my instructions”[/quote] But what does this mean? It is one thing to say "I want 50% of his 401k because that's what the law requires" and another to say "I want this specific painting and will deduct its cash value in my portion of the settlement" and another to say you want something random with no fixed end date and no set value like the cat pedicures in perpetuity. [/quote]
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