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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We use iPads more than we should at home, but electronics in a restaurant is a nonstarter for us.  Eating in a restaurant socially with others is a life skill that my ADHD kid needs to learn as much as anyone else.  We go out quite often, and have since my kids were little - mostly to neighborhood/casual places - if there arecrayons and a coloring sheet, great, but if not we chat and eat.  [/quote]

Op here. I agree with you but my son can’t tolerate sitting still and coloring for the duration of a dinner at even a kid friendly place. The other night, we went to a family friendly dinner (a very casual pizza restaurant) that only took 45 minutes and in that duration he was touching every salt/pepper/red pepper shaker on the table, spilling water into his toy cars, and then running around the restaurant after he ate (luckily it was very spacious and I was able to leave with him and take him outside to run around.) he has a way of playing with toys in atypical ways that creates enormous messes, disruptions etc. my other child who is NT will color, or play with toys in a deliberate way and can behave typically for a child. I don’t want to give either of them the iPad, but we’re in a tough spot because it is impossible for him to sit still while unmedicated without being disruptive - even with toys. [/quote]

Then you stop going.  Stop taking him to these places.  Try again in a year or two. [/quote]

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