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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m similar to OP.  Ex cheated, so when we divorced I opted to keep all communication to just logistics about the kids.  No fighting, but also no friendliness or small talk. We don’t sit together at events for kids, but we both attend and it’s not an issue.  
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Not trying to be accusatory, and I completely understand your feelings, but how are you and OP so sure this doesn’t affect your kids? My parents split when I was a a child, refusing to interact, and I remember my events where they’d both show being so stressful for me - even up through my wedding to now events for the grandkids. DH’s parents split due to cheating and I always appreciated MIL’s ability to be civil and make small talk with FIL. It makes interacting with them so much easier compared to my parents. [/quote]

PP I say this with all due respect…. GROW UP. The fact that your parents choose to be big enough to not fight is your gift. Life is real, not a fairy tell. No one’s mom needs to befriend their abuser, even if that abuser if the gather of her child. Your mom set a wonderful example of how to not be selfish and to respect herself at the same time.[/quote]

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