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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a widow with a 6 year old daughter. My current partner would like to get married. I love him and think he’s wonderful. Something that gives me pause is that as a child one of my aunts married a pedophile who ended up abusing her kids. I don’t want to introduce anything like that to my kid. For those of you who remarried with kids, how did you determine your new partner wasn’t an abuser?[/quote] Your obsessive thoughts will ruin any marriage. You might should wait until you are older and the kid is grown to remarry. But even then, you might worry about the new husband molesting his own kid with you. TLDR, You have Pure O or purely obsessive form of OCD. [/quote] Wow. This is an interesting overreaction. I think OP sounds smart. Wonder what’s going on with you, PP. the fact is that a shocking number of children are abused by a nonbiological male they live with. [/quote] As women, if we weren't abused ourselves, many of us have a close friend who was. Most women worry deeply about their daughters around unrelated men. [/quote]
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