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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]TBH I would definitely not bring a man into my home with a six year old daughter. But I am nuts--I never told people, but I never left my daughters alone with any man besides my DH, my dad, and my brother (all of whom I trust) when they were young. I didn't announce this policy, but I never even would leave them with my FIL or BIL. You never know... stepdads are kind of the number one abusers of children, I think....[/quote] They are not. Biological parents are. https://www.statista.com/statistics/254893/child-abuse-in-the-us-by-perpetrator-relationship/[/quote] That is pure numbers. It doesn’t tell the story of biological father vs stepfather. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/6609753/ Analysis of interviews obtained from a random sample of 930 adult women in San Francisco revealed that [b]17% or one out of approximately every six women who had a stepfather as a principal figure in her childhood years, was sexually abused by him. The comparable figures for biological fathers were 2% or one out of approximately 40 women[/b]. In addition, when a distinction was made between Very Serious Sexual Abuse (including experiences ranging from forced penile-vaginal penetration to non-forceful attempted fellatio, cunnilingus , and anal intercourse) and other less serious forms, 47% of the cases of sexual abuse by stepfathers were at the Very Serious level of violation compared with 26% by biological fathers [/quote]
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