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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't get married. [/quote] Getting married has nothing to do with this. I recently served on a jury, the case was about a boyfriend who raped repeatedly the partner’s daughter between age 5 and 8. They never married, they never even lived in the same house, they had separate apartments . And kids are unlikely to report, even when they have good relationships with the parent, because they are ashamed, because they think it was their fault, because they may not understand it was violence and not affection, because they are threatened. It is hard because many people are good people, a cousin of mine met a woman with a young daughter and he raised her as his own. Daughter is now an adult who love him as a father and my cousin and his wife are retired. I think OP did what sue was supposed to do, background check, meeting family and friends, move slowly. Sue should keep eyes wide open and talk to her DD, not just for this guy for because risk is everywhere and it is important that the DD knows anything should be reported ti her mother snd that her mother will always have her back. [/quote]
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