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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be very careful with this. With a man like this he can be highly manipulative and could turn it around so he gets her to not want to be with YOU, or he claims parental alienation if you attempt to influence her to not be with him. The die is cast, he is already her father. IMO it is sometimes best to support her as she gradually figures things out for herself about who her dad is.[/quote]

Follow up to ask if you think it’s better not to split so I can keep her safe?[/quote]

I know that this is hard to hear, but it is important to realize that you cannot keep her safe. Legally he will continue to have the right to spend time with her alone u less he is hitting her and you can prove it. So don’t wear yourself out emotionally or financially fighting for something you will not achieve. The best way to keep her safe is to mentally and emotionally prepare her to deal with difficult people, by strengthening herself and her psychology. And by raising her to become deeply financially independent so that she can afford to walk away from someone who mistreats her, or tries to. [/quote]

Great advice for OP.[/quote]

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