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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will help pay but I do find it interesting that everyone feels like loans they take when their kids are 18 are ultimately their kid’s loans. I guess for me I’d never take on loans for my kids and expect them to pay them back. I wasn’t told when I was 18 that this would be the deal. I agree if that I knew this from the start but it feels a bit unfair to just expect this out of the blue. [/quote]

Where is your father in all of this?[/quote]

+1  OP, your parents were married when the loan was taken out, your mom has been paying $1k/month, your mom is broke because seh paid your dad a mint for the marital house, and . . . you're mad at your *mom* that you have to take over the parent plus loan?  It's not a mommy plus loan, your dad could easily take over or pitch in.  But somehow it's all mom's fault.[/quote]

Is the divorce recent within the last year? What balance is left? When you log on, whose name is on the loan? Can you determine what assets were used for collateral? In a divorce, joint debts usually have to be settled. [/quote]

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