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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How long did it take you to get away from her abusive dad? I would think you'd be more empathetic and understanding not only because you've had an abusive partner but because her issues with this guy stem from her issues from her abusive dad. [/quote] +1 It was sort of a throw away line in the OP, but that is likely where the root of this issue lies. You grew up with abuse and chose an abusive partner and now your daughter, who was forced to live through your issues - is creating the same. I get you want her to be smarter than it sounds like you were, that’s natural, but what seems lost of you is that she’s repeating what she knows because it’s what you modeled for her. The two of you should see a family therapist. [/quote]
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