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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can't see the emotional abuse that may have been there OP. My parents loved me, but tried to control me even into adulthood, after I did everything they asked me to do as a child / teenager / college student. Made good grades, went to the college they picked out, didn't do drugs, didn't sleep around. Once I graduated and wanted to do what I wanted to do: move to another city for a good job, marry the guy I had fallen in love with, they freaked out. I kept a distance after that. [/quote] Ironically you don't see that how you got to the point where you could do what you wanted to do, move where you wanted to move and marry whom you wanted to marry. Did you see getting good education, not doing drugs or not sleeping around as a favor to them, not to yourself? Did you face any consequences of moving or marrying? Were they being protective to save you? Yes, they shouldn't have tried to stop you but what was the intention? [/quote]
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