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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You'd probably have gotten more sympathy and perhaps a few numbers if you'd posted in the explicit forum.

I'm the low sex spouse.  Having children wreaks havoc with your hormonal system.  My libido completely disappeared almost as soon as I conceived and didn't return until I stopped breastfeeding.   Even though it's back, its not what it once was.  DH and I have a somewhat satisfying -for him- sex life now.  I admit that if I went months without sex, I wouldn't be bothered.  Young children are super stressful, add to that if she's gone back to work (or in my case school), add to that if you have sn (we do)....  All this does not make for a randy girl.  Add to that if I'm upset with DH.  Being intimate is the last thing I want to do with someone I'm pissed off at.  You're wife is probably no different.

You should try to find a way to tell your wife how unhappy you are, in the least painful way possible.   You might also think about couples counseling. [/quote]

Counseling just gives the non-putter-outer psychological cover.  That person is selfish and foolish.  How could refusal to meet a spouse's basic needs not affect the marriage negatively?  If you hate DH just woman up and tell him so instead of trying to make him feel like a horny monster.[/quote]

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