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Reply to "DH turned his emotional abuse and screaming on DD"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop with the pity party. Which sounds harsh but getting caught in the mentality of "I'm a bad mom" "I failed her" etc will do nothing except cause more inaction. Yep, fine, you messed up. But you can't go back and change things so the only thing you can do is move forward. 1. You can't afford the dog. I'm sorry and I would be sobbing if I had to give up my dog. But the reality is every single penny you have needs to be put into getting you and your daughter into a safe situation. And dog food, vet, and all the other dog expenses are not a luxury you can have. If your husband treats the dog fine, the dog stays with him. 2. You call a hotline. Now. No putting it off. That's where the pity party prevents you from acting. 3. If you have joint expenses right now, use them to go stay in a hotel for a week. [/quote] Harsh. But fair. [/quote]
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