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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH take- Resentment is never one sided, I am guessing both of you feel unheard and under appreciated. The migration of his focus to work and extended family may be because that is where he feels respected and appreciated. I’m not saying he is right in his treatment of you, but fixing your relationship will require both of you to be empathetic and listen to the other partner’s perspective, forgive and make changes or you are destined to breakup the family. If either of you is not willing to be personally accountable for your part in the degradation of the relationship, then the best you can hope for is the status quo. I hope you can work on it for your kids because it doesn’t sound like a peaceful existence for anyone involved right now.[/quote] Alternatively, some individuals truly lack character. They will destroy anyone or even their marriage to protect their external image and ego. And don’t get anyone started on putting your family of original and your job ahead of your spouse and kids. In no way is the above a “mutual” development. One is escalating problems whilst the other is upset, hurt, and then angry and hopeless. [/quote]
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