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[quote=Anonymous]Do they WANT you to cook, clean, do shopping and straighten up? If you're doing those things and they aren't asking you to, you can't hold it against them that they aren't tripping over themselves to appreciate you. I love my mom, but she struggles with boundaries. She was staying at our house over the holidays and I walked in on her completely re-arranging DS' toy room without being asked, and then was offended that I was more annoyed than grateful. I suspect there is some of that going on in your situation. Maybe spend some time reflecting on how your own behavior is contributing to this situation and you and your son will be able to repair things. For us, my mom is more than welcome to watch DS. They have a great relationship. We just bring him to her because I don't want her in my house when we aren't there. [/quote]
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