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[quote=Anonymous]I support you in walking away. It doesn’t have to be “you must have cheated.” Maybe he did (probably), maybe he didn’t (looking around).

It’s the attitude 
1. That he thinks monogamous married people can do this
2. That he had this attitude and when you found out
3. That he’d even think about it
4. That he’s not invested in building up relationship with you. It takes work, did he not get the memo? Did he think marriage was supposed to be easy street?
5. Maybe stretching my assumptions: It’s not just Tinder. Does he criticize you for x y or z but don’t fully trust or support you to manage x y or z. Like “you’ve gained weight” but then craps on you for things you’re tried, ties one arm behind your back “you can’t spend more” to fix it?

If you’re my friend, leave your sandbag behind, I’ll help set you up for a fun time without this guy holding you back. It sounds like it could be fun, not emotionally difficult.

If he gives what is owed, a massive apology about Tinder, his own work with a therapist, etc, then you can stay married to him.[/quote]

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