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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I believe you can only truly more into a healthy relationship after some years of work and reflection. It’s taken me a long time to move through the anger/grief/accountability and healing. So I used my years with my kids and my healing as my focus. In that healing and in those years you may find you love being alone. Ask me how I know ;) if a great love comes along I’m here for it, but what healed me was truly allowing myself to love myself and to love the life I crafted. [/quote] I’ve worked on this for 2 years prior to filing - I have no anger, or grief left. He was an awful human being with a mental health issue and I’m just glad that it’s over.[/quote] I found people who said “I did the work before I left my partner” and laughter out loud . You mean the work of lying to them for two years while cohabitating with them and presumably sharing housework and finances with them? That’s funny. I’d just assume that made you a jerk if you told me years of your marriage was your disconnected self work to prepare you for a new partner. [/quote]
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