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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for all the feedback. I’ve been laid off before and in one case, pushed out by an abusive supervisor. Because if those experiences, I pretty much have always had a Plan B, even working part time jobs after my full time just to know I had something else. So, I’m doing my best to be understanding and patient. I get it. I think I just need to HEAR something more realistic from someone who has a great network (he’s already been offered some terrific consulting work if he wants it) other than selling art or DJ’ing raves. [/quote] Right now his dreams cost you nothing. There will severance if he is RIF’ed, and you say he has a good network. That will literally buy you time. Plus, he may not be RIF’ed - no need to make a move out of anxiety right now. Encourage him to download his SF-50, emails with praise from his boss, and annual reviews. But that’s all he needs to do right now. [/quote]
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