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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your family needs money and you refuse to pay anything? You see it as his money and your money, THAT’S why your marriage is failing. [/quote]

He has hundred thousand tied up in silly thing he can get refunded but won't. He's had emotional affair and travels the world on the company dime that is now failing. So I'm keeping my savings in case he leaves. Obviously not if it was dire. [/quote]

This attitude you have is just as bad if not worse than anything he is doing financially. That kind of attitude will ruin you. Sounds like that’s what you want though because now he doesn’t have money you want divorce. Is that it? Or you just like blaming him for everything? From this angle you’re sabotaging and he’s at least trying.[/quote]

What do you mean? Sorry I'm definitely not conveying this properly. What attitude? He's trying how?  I don't care about money in the least. Drive an old car don't shop or care about any of that. Just want to be able to pay our bills and not plow through our savings or liquidate assets.  [/quote]

You're doing the right thing to play defense. If he is a train wreck plowing through assets and refuses to get a job, the sooner you divorce, the better. It sounds like you want a divorce from your post—lots of resentment. If so, you should consider moving fast to stop the bleeding. Make it amicable so the kids ' college funds don't get drained. [/quote]

How would divorce help? It's so $$$. Also why would kids college be affected? Lastly I don't want one at this point. But I'm just so mad and he would likely be the one to initiate as he has indicated he wants to feel more alive passion
Vitality and has had a spiritual awakening the last decade. [/quote]

This sounds like rearranging the deck chairs on the Titanic.  You've got a husband who doesn't want to be with you, spending down your nest egg with no plans to contribute. [/quote]

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