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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are with him why?   Work on your self esteem issues.  [/quote]

Because our marriage is good and in a vacuum, his demands don’t seem unreasonable and were easy to comply with. You don’t want me talking to the baseball dads or my dumbass colleagues? That’s fine; I was really just being polite and social and a team player. I’m naturally somewhat introverted, so [b]sitting quietly or ordering room service, or reading if my kid isn’t playing is fine by me.[/b]

Frankly, apart from the double standard, I didn’t really care about the woman from softball. I trust(ed?) my husband, and realize I really can’t police him (or anyone) into fidelity. But the deceit about her continued participation has really hit me hard.[/quote]  There is nothing wrong with doing these things, it's true. But it is wrong if you are doing them because you feel you have no choice, or you are afraid to upset your husband. That is not OK.  Chatting with other parents at practice is normal. Chatting with co-workers during lunch is normal.  It makes me really sad for you that you think you have a good marriage.  I'm sure there are other aspects of your marriage that make you happy, but what you describe here is being emotionally abused and manipulated.  That is no way to live. I hope you can come to realize your worth. [/quote]

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