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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your best bet is to be yourself. Always go on dates with full makeup, perfect hair, manicure/pedicure, heels, fancy clothing.

Some men really appreciate a girly girl who always looks perfect by their side. Don’t downplay this part of your personality and make sure it is something he appreciates. [/quote]

I don’t really do makeup, nails, or hair much. My high maintenance is subscriptions, massages, a house cleaner, etc.[/quote]

This doesn’t sound like high maintenance. Sounds like a lazy person who spends a lot. I don’t think most men care about how much you spend as long as you make $$$. [/quote]

I don’t think I’m lazy. I cooked and cleaned when I didn’t make a lot of money. Now I do and would rather not do this stuff because I work 45-50 hour weeks and make enough that I can afford the luxuries. [/quote]

Being able to "afford the luxuries" means different things to different people. Some think that if have the money in savings, you can afford it. Others think that you can only afford it if you can pay for it and otherwise have plenty of money to save, invest, etc. Some people think that spending tons of money is a moral failing even if you can afford it under any metric. Others think that being frugal is a moral failing if not necessary. There are all types out there, and it is hard to know what you are indulging in and what you can/can't afford. But I think that if we want to make generalizations, guys who are marriage minded probably tend to be on the more conservative side when it comes to money, so if you are trying to find a guy who wants a wife and kids, he might be turned off by frivolous spending. [/quote]

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