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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's fine to say you need some time to yourself so that you can process your emotions. It's actually perfect that you don't live together yet. Some men can be more fixers than listeners so when you're around him and feeling down, he wants to help by "fixing" you, but that's not actually helping or what you want. I would take time to yourself and only see him when you feel like you want to have fun. It's almost like you're taking a pause from being engaged and going back to dating. If you want, you can take the time and energy to explain what you need right now from him emotionally, but don't feel like you have to overextend yourself. I wouldn't make any longterm decisions right now, such as ending the engagement or relationship, because this is such a stressful time. Work on your emotional health, put him on the back burner, and come back to things once you feel ready. [/quote]
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