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[quote=Anonymous]No idea.

Men don’t seem to understand that it is nearly impossible for women to enjoy sex with someone who is hostile/negative/rude to them. Even if you try to go through the motions and have sex even when you don’t want to (in hopes of improving the marriage… and that his day to day attitude & treatment of you improves) they can obviously tell. And then will complain about the sex not being good. If some women can fake enthusiasm in this situation, seriously HOW? I could never figure it out.

It isn’t even about much discussed “emotional connection” in this sort of situation…but simply being treated politely/nicely for a period of time. And most guys like this can’t even seem to manage that.

It could definitely be some mental health issues on his end that is causing the behavior, but BTDT and I never found a solution.

I will say that arguing about household chores (or household habits like leaving stuff lying stuff around) to the degree it harms the marriage is usually not worth it. Unless it is something very extreme (hoarding behaviors or something truly unsanitary) or is negatively affecting the kids healthy or safety.

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