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[quote=Anonymous]She needs grief counseling. And more time with friends, maybe volunteering, etc. But grief will sometimes make us irrational and rage. And if this was the first trip after her husband’s death, I’m sure she felt every minute that he was absent on that everything was different. Not that you guys did anything wrong at all, but this is likely her mental state and probably why she was complaining. She was really complaining that her husband is gone and her life has changed irrevocably. Your trip within the first year of FIL’s death is fine. (She herself went on a trip within the first year of FIL’s death!) But you and DH shouldn’t share with her details of nice things you’re up to for a while. [/quote]
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