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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When your spouse has unilaterally decided that your marital sex life is over, because she no longer desires sex, it's not a natural transition to open the marriage.  She is still going to demand complete monogamy and cry fowl at any suggestion otherwise.  She will not want her husband to see other women for sex for fear of losing him to someone who actually appreciates him and enjoys having sex with him, unlike her. She would rather he remain miserable in a sexless marriage with her until eventually he is old enough that his his own reduced sex drive matches hers.  Men and women cheat instead of asking for an open marriage because they know how that will be received so it's better to not tip them off.  The choices are, divorce, or seek what is missing from the marriage with someone else who is likely in the same situation.[/quote]
Men who do zero introspection into why their wives suddenly do not want sex anymore absolutely astound me. It’s not coming from nowhere, buddy. And inevitably, when you divorce, she will be happily very active with her next partner. [/quote]I know from reading this forum over the years. It's from not sharing housework and child care.  So they withhold sex and that makes sense.  I know it makes perfect sense because I read it here.  There is no other reason for it. [/quote]

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