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Reply to "There's no point in asking your partner to change"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For big things or things that are part of who they are, I agree. For small things, if there is love and respect there, they will make the changes. DH and I both had habits that bothered the other. We love and respect each other deeply. We changed those habits (things like leaving dishes out, not closing cabinets, not putting things away when I was done with them, etc) [/quote] To me, the love and respect would mitigate toward just not saying anything. Like is it really worth starting a fight over someone not closing a cabinet door?[/quote] It doesn't have to be a fight. The love and respect is what moderates the response to the request- why would you get angry at someone you love about a cabinet door? Ignoring it because you love them AND are afraid they are going to fight with you is the actual problem.[/quote]
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