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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For big things or things that are part of who they are, I agree.  For small things, if there is love and respect there, they will make the changes.  DH and I both had habits that bothered the other.   We love and respect each other deeply.   We changed those habits (things like leaving dishes out, not closing cabinets, not putting things away when I was done with them, etc) [/quote]

To me, the love and respect would mitigate toward just not saying anything. Like is it really worth starting a fight over someone not closing a cabinet door?[/quote]

Pp here.  A fight?   We've literally never fought over any of this stuff.   It's a simple "hey, when you're done with the vacuum cleaner can you please just put it away instead of leaving it where it was used?" (Actual quote).  And then "yeah ..sorry.  ". And then guess what?  Next time I vacuumed I put it away!

DH is the same.  If I ask him to not to something /do something....he does!

I have no idea why you would assume any of these would lead to fights or disagreements.  [/quote]

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