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Reply to "There's no point in asking your partner to change"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]... or telling them something that bothers you. You can either decide to live with it, or leave them. But people are who they are, they don't change, and if you tell them something that's bothering you, they'll just get angry and keep doing it anyway. Agree/disagree? [/quote] Absolutely disagree. My husband and I are two separate people with different likes, dislikes, opinions, preferences, etc. If he tell me that something I do bothers him, I can and will change it (within reason). Same for him. Sorry you married poorly. [/quote] How do you decide on what's within reason?[/quote] It's called compromise. And reason. Somehow in almost 20 years we haven't had issues with this. If I tell him something is bothering me, per your original post, he won't get angry with me. So your problems begin long before you have to decide if something is reasonable or not. Perhaps try therapy. [/quote]
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