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Reply to "There's no point in asking your partner to change"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think that you can definitely ask your partner to change. What you can't do is micromanage [i]how[/i] they change, or expect them to do everything your way. The kinds of requests PPs have mentioned are reasonable, normal, and part of healthy relationships. Sounds like from the comments you've made, OP, that your partner is hyper sensitive to anything that even might be critical. Either that, or you are really bad at using "I" statements and communicating your requests without judgement (I am too!). Or both. But what you've stated isn't how everyone is.[/quote]
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