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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would find it impossible to be attracted to a child, so your husband’s continued emotional availability for this treatment and the burning of your family time on his responses to it would be a turn-off. I would tell him this.[/quote] Jesus, so dysfunctional. So your spouse’s main role is to be attractive to you? [/quote] His main role is to be an adult. That requires not acting like a child. A byproduct is attraction. [/quote] Fair. OP's husband is an adult and in therapy. He should use those sessions to figure out a way to deal with his father/son issues & whatever else for that matter. That's the whole entire point of therapy no? Not spinning wheels at therapy and still come home and press OP/Wife on what to do. Nagging your wife who isn't equipped nor a doctor is simply not fair. I can also see where it could be a turn off and well unattractive. Not being harsh ..but I get it. [/quote]
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