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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My goodness. I can always count on DCUM's bitter people to be snarky. lol

Son OFTEN goes to places alone. He's an avid photographer. He's taken numerous classes in photography and many have offered to buy his photos. He refuses to sell them. He just loves taking beautiful photos.

My son isn't selfish. And I'm not a terrible wife or mother. Husband has been cruel to the whole family for many years. When I was very ill and bedridden, unable to cook for the kids, husband only made breakfast for the younger kids but not for our college aged son. He asked him to use his allowance money for food. It wasn't enough of an allowance for gas and food, however, and I was too sick to protest on his behalf at the time. My son still needed gas money to get to school and so was skipping meals. He lost about 8 lbs during that time.

Too many other cruel behaviors to get into and it's not worth discussing it.

I'm not sure what "greater autistic phenotype" is but I have wondered whether he might be somewhere on the spectrum in light of the many behaviors he's exhibited.

I still have younger children - so divorce is out of the question right now.

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Sorry that people are being mean. But your excuse of having younger children so you won't divorce is so silly. Please reevaluate. You're setting a bad example for your children, I hope you don't have daughters. I love being in my own household, and showing my daughter that my life doesn't need to be centered around an angry man. He lives a mile away and so it's not like he's not around. [/quote]

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