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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A couple of days ago my gf and I had had discussed some ideas for the 4th but we hadn’t solidified anything yet just that she was going to come over earlier in the day. Yesterday, my friend invited me to his cookout for today. So, I told her last night that I was going to my friend’s cookout and she was welcome to come. This morning she called me and asked me what time I was going to the cookout. I told her. She said she wasn’t too keen on going because she doesn’t know anyone there (she’s introverted). She usually does go with me to things but I guess she just wasn’t up to it today. My friend lives about 5 minutes away from her, so she said there was no point coming over early to my house if I’m going to the cookout on her side of town, so she would just come over after.

A few hours later I texted her the address of the cookout if she changed her mind and that we could go see the fireworks at 930. She called me and told me since I was going to the cookout she called her cousin and they had made plans. I asked her if we were still going to see each other afterwards and she said she didn’t know because they may go out tonight and then said as she chuckled, “since you ditched me today”. I told her I didn’t ditch her and she brought up the plans we had discussed a few days ago. I reminded her that we had solidified anything and that some of my friends would be at the cookout so I’d rather go to that. She ended the call by saying she’d let me know later tonight if she was coming over or not.[/quote]

Miscommunication. You should have said, can we go to my cousin's cookout and then go to the fireworks afterwards instead of "I'm going to my cousin's cookout and you're more than welcome to come." NExt, she too was being petty by being passive aggressive and letting you know that she may or may not come over since you "ditched" her. You both sound like high school kids in a relationship. Actually, my 17 yr old and her boyfriend would have handled this more maturely.

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