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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dw wants about 30-40k worth of cosmetic work done.  I do not mind paying for it but she probably needs to lose 15-20lbs to look a lot better.

I am in excellent shape and work hard to maintain my body so I know it takes a decent level of discipline.  I am not expecting her to look like a fitness model -  but is it unreasonable to mention or want her to work out/get in better shape [b]before I agree to pay for the procedures?

She works but does not have 40k laying around and my job pays more/bonuses making it not a big deal to pay for.[/b][/quote]

You not considering your joint income as belonging to both of you is a way bigger marital issue than 15 pounds. [/quote]

This. The idea that “you” are paying for it is a little much if you two have kids, which is closely correlated to changes in a woman’s body.[/quote]
JFC.
Pretty sure if OP blew 40k of his bonus in Vegas DW wouldn’t be happy.
If he makes the money and it is going to her body he is paying for it.  There are not many cosmetic procedures that benefit the family.

Unless boob job is in the mix, then of course any man is going to willingly pay for that.[/quote]

She also makes money per his OP[/quote]

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