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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dw wants about 30-40k worth of cosmetic work done.  I do not mind paying for it but she probably needs to lose 15-20lbs to look a lot better.

I am in excellent shape and work hard to maintain my body so I know it takes a decent level of discipline.  I am not expecting her to look like a fitness model -  but is it unreasonable to mention or want her to work out/get in better shape [b]before I agree to pay for the procedures?

She works but does not have 40k laying around and my job pays more/bonuses making it not a big deal to pay for.[/b][/quote]

You not considering your joint income as belonging to both of you is a way bigger marital issue than 15 pounds. [/quote]

This. The idea that “you” are paying for it is a little much if you two have kids, which is closely correlated to changes in a woman’s body.[/quote]

Oh give me a break. Yes, he earned the money and is paying for it. The wife should have a little discipline and cleanup her diet and exercise. I would not pay for this . Ridiculous. Maybe try the shot if need to lose weight. Much cheaper. Woman here.[/quote]

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