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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I could have written your post, but my mom and sisters do it to me. I am the fixer, the researcher, the payer, the rock. My sister is coming to town and hasn’t told me. I am now doing a slow fade. My mom has more self-awareness than my sisters, but I told her I won’t be the executor of her estate and it was like an anvil was lifted from my chest. I want nothing from them, need nothing from them, and am focusing on me and my family. I’m sorry. It sucks. I don’t bother saying anything either because I get angry tears and blame.[/quote] DP, here. But I want to say I am doing the same and feel so free!! I hope you can heal from this and that you take good care of yourself. You're right that there is not point to saying anything with these types of people. They gaslight and blame others for everything. [/quote]
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