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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You blame it on OCD but fail to correct basic behavior like hand washing after touching himself while eating. So I don’t think this is OCD at all, I think it’s you not recognizing puberty for what it is and trying to take the easy way out by drugging him rather than teach him appropriate behavior related to masturbación. I suggest you get a sex ex class that’s geared towards special needs and find a professional to address this. If you’re not even making him wash his hands after then you need a lot of parent training around basic issues. [/quote] You are concerned about hand washing here? That is what first comes to mind for you? What? And OP said it does not seem sexual. Agree with PP -- go away. You re the opposite of helpful. [/quote] I asked about handwashing to know how op responds when this happens. The handwashing question was to know if the child being sent to the bathroom and if the behavior was being interrupted or ignored (the most common intervention for public masturbation is to send them to the bathroom or bedroom, in a restaurant I assumed bathroom. I did not say did you send him to the bathroom to masturbate because OP is not even aware that’s what’s going on. I figured asking if she sent him to wash his hands was the best question because her response would show me the most information). I learned from this and all her crazy responses that she does not consider this a big deal, she’s done nothing to address it, she finds it ok to fondle yourself whilst eating, she wants to drug her child for masturbating, and ultimately her son needs SN related sex ed, and she seriously needs parent training. I would bet money that this is puberty & hormone related. [/quote]
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