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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Remove her as your friend on SM
Why didn’t you as result of her being rude & nasty? [/quote]

OP here. Because I’ve learned in the past unfriending is a big deal to people. I just mute her stuff so it no longer comes up when I’m on it. No need to be dramatic and if I need to check it for something (our kids go to same school and she’s in PTA and we run in the crossing professional circles) I will keep access. [/quote]

So you're the bully who follows/lurks to "keep access". Got it. Thanks for clarifying  :roll: [/quote]

OP. I’ve noticed some people like to switch around the blame. I actually got this woman her connection to a job and she has only been catty and unsupportive in my career goals. I am slightly older and don’t have time for drama or petty people - I’ve had mostly supportive caring friendships with women and thought this was one of them until it was not. My job is serious and I care more about public service than my social media presence. [/quote]

Ah, so she owes you? She didn't kiss your ass enough? She didn't honor the invisible contract your "help" came with?

Nah, you're highlighting the problem: you.[/quote]

OP. No ass kissing required. Rooting for a friend in their own professional, yes, I do expect that of middle aged women friends. I always do that for my friends. [/quote]

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