Reply to Friend was mean in person but still follows and likes my posts

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Friend was mean in person but still follows and likes my posts"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The last time I hung out with this friend, she was so catty and passive aggressive that I decided to not be anything other than pleasant professional acquaintances with her. I had asked her if she was upset about anything and she swore no. The things she said were somewhat hurtful and I’m not a drama queen, I gave her a chance to talk and she declined. So I didn’t unfriend her but muted her posts so I could focus on other friendships and her stuff wouldn’t be top of my algorithm anymore.

I can see she still views all my stories and likes some of my posts. This doesn’t change anything for me. I find it all very imature. Just wondering for people who are like this… what exactly is going through your mind? Why claim nothing is wrong, act really rude in person, then continue to follow or like posts by someone? [/quote]

She was passive aggressive?  :roll:

You sound passive aggressive AF, OP. You didn't address whatever behavior you found bothersome (which, given how overreactive and dramatic your post is was probably a total nothingburger), then you asked her if she had a problem (rather than being honest that YOU had a problem). You then claim you "gave her a chance to talk", i.e. to read your mind that you were upset despite you not actually saying anything about it, and she declined, because she's not the problem here. Now you muted her posts, which she doesn't know about, and you're upset that she's still casually interacting with your content, probably because she doesn't know what a drama queen you are. All of this because "unfriending causes drama".

Lordy, you are a mess and a half![/quote]

DP I'm fairly new to DCUM. Are you a troll or do you genuinely feel this way? Why are some of you so hostile to people like the OP? Maybe she isn't telling the full story, but it's a lot to start claiming she's the reason behind the drama. [/quote]

Bro, this isn't even a DCUM thing. Have you met people? We're the reason behind most of our dramas, if we're willing to be honest about our involvement. And knowing that is the key to changing the part of it you can control: yourself. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics