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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hello, can you even read your own post?

One friend eloped with not engagement. She clearly is not interested in engagements and rings and discussions of same.

The other isn't married. Maybe she wants to be in which case it's a painful subject, or maybe she's not interested, in which case she's not going to discuss details with you.

Your brother is an ass for calling an engagement the proper way to do things, BTW. Who thinks like that in 2025? And you know that one at least isn't jealous, and you're not sure if the other one is... so he's just mouthing off.

If you desperately need to talk about wedding minutiae, find someone else to talk to.[/quote]

No need for this rude reply. I was just asking a question, as other people around me were much more excited about my engagement details.
There were other women in my circle who wanted to be married and a wedding, but couldn't do it because of reasons out of their control.[/quote]

PP you replied to. You're coming across more and more as a bit of a smug married (soon-to-be), and you and your brother seem overly invested in determining who among your friends are envious of the fact that you will be married.

This is what I picked up on, and your reply confirms it.

If you were a decent human being, it should not matter WHY your friends aren't interested. If they're not interested, you just talk about your celebrations to others who are.

See? Not difficult. But it seems you just really want to rub everyone's face in it that you're going to be married. I got married at 23, many moons ago, and I did not behave that way at all.

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