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Reply to "If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is one year a marker for living a double life, guilt, and shame? [/quote] If you don't feel the whole double life/guilt/shame thing from the start, you're not of high enough integrity to magically catch on later. A year+ "affair" is a one-sided open marriage, and such a blanket disrespect for your spouse that you should be isolated from society for your extraordinary selfishness. If you don't love your spouse enough to be honest with them about where your time/money/resources/attention are going, FOR A YEAR, you're a trash human being. Your spouse is either a clueless idiot, or aware and unable to justify leaving (or, perhaps, financially unable to leave). None of this absolves the cheater one bit. Cheaters are absolute garbage excuses for people. Expecting them to grow a conscience over time is ridiculous. [/quote] +1[/quote]
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