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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your issue is that you are single. You brought a kid into the world single. What did you think it would be like? Where is your support system? This is most families OP but they have a significant other to help with financial, physical and logistical burdens. [/quote] Sure that is part of the issue. What I thought it would be like was what it was like the first 2.5 years- the job I signed up for where I was doing something productive and had value. 2 days in the office a week with a shorter commute bc traffic was better then. I took a high paying job that I was good at and was doing fine. Now I spend my day doing stupid things for no reason and it doesnt seem worth the time away from my kid. [/quote] NP. Partners don't always make rearing a child easier. And most families don't provide significant help. Don't let the PP rearrange facts to make you feel bad. OP, my son just turned 5, and I left my fed job when he turned 2. For much of this time, I might as well have been a single mom. I work a part time contract now and will for the near future. I'm sorry you're in this situation. Focus on your mental health, physical health, and your child's well-being. [/quote]
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