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[quote=Anonymous]Lots of dysfunction here. Your sister parentified you. It's not abnormal to seek support from a parent as an adult and then to go back to normal functioning and not be in touch as often as long as you are appreciative and respectful because you don't have a friendship with your parent. Was your mom not able to give her support growing up? She is taking, but not giving. Your mom is being dysfunctional butting into your relationship. It's not her place to ask why you two didn't see each other and then to go between the 2 of you. This is not healthy closeness. This is enmeshment and codependency. Figure out some boundaries with your sister, but I would gently confront her about what your mom said. Don't accuse her of lying just let her know what came back to you.[/quote]
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