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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Friend’s son left TJ. What to say when we meet?

Saying ‘I’m sorry’ feels wrong.

Asking why, also feels wrong.

Saying nothing also feels wrong.

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My kid left too.  Asking where they went is appropriate.  If they want to talk they will elaborate.

My kid was a straight A student and had trouble with the peers.  She saw rampant cheating and bragging/lying about grades was based on pure lack of integrity.  It wasn't a good fit.  Most of the kids don't have any social skills, which combined with the lack of integrity made it difficult for her to find a solid group of friends.  I also didn't like the parents.  I felt they were overbearing, pushy, braggy (like their kids), and lacked social skills.  She went back to private school that screens these kids out. They are smart, no doubt, but they don't have what it takes to be really successful outside an academic environment - which is what we, as parents, are training them for.[/quote]

So you came here to say your daughter left because "Most of the kids don't have any social skills, which combined with the lack of integrity made it difficult for her to find a solid group of friends" so "She went back to private school?"

GTFOH.  Getting straight A's as a freshman isn't rare but it's not common either.  Coming from a private school is relatively rare.  Going BACK to that private school after a year at TJ is exceedingly rare.  A straight A student from a private school returning to a private school hasn't happened in recent memory.

High school parent don't hang out with each other unless their kids went to elementary school together or maybe if their kids are on a team together.  The freshmen parents are not a very "braggy" group.

I don't know if you had a child that went to TJ but if so, she was not a straight A student that left to go back to a private school.  I suspect you don't have kids at all.  [/quote]

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