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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd get rid of the friend.  Unbelievably entitled[/quote]

For more context, she is the friend in our group that is always doing things for others. She is a type a organizer. She hosts gatherings. She organized my baby shower. And she has given me tons of baby hand me downs.[/quote]

Ya, this is a type. They do this to allow them to think of themselves as good people. She likely has a personality disorder.

Listen to the fact that she is making you feel guilty -- why are you willing to have a relationship with someone who makes you feel guilty and bad?

Good luck. I tried to slow fade someone like this in my life and she clung like a barnacle. When I told her straight out that I felt uncomfortable with our dynamic, she lost her mind, trashed me to mutual friends, etc.

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We’ve had this same dynamic. We’ve had some falling out incidents but she’s always made her way back into my life, mostly because we have the same friends. I do think she may have a personality disorder but she is getting therapy. For a while I was her go to therapist but that was incredibly draining and not good for either of us. [/quote]

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