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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You do not owe her anything. I don’t think she’s your friend. Giving you hand me downs doesn’t mean she’s a selfless person. You need to stop talking about the poster—shut her down. She brings it up and you say “you have asked and I have answered. This is my poster and you need to stop asking me for it. Im done, don’t ask me again.” And don’t talk about putting it in your will for goodness sake. She’s weird. [/quote] I do have to keep reminding myself that she’s one of my “arm’s length” friends. Good boundaries keep it better for both of us. But I do think the problem lies with me in that I’m letting it bother me so much. I’m sure others would just dismiss it like the crazy request that it is, but for me, yes I do take the request seriously and I’ve been experiencing angst over it and over not giving something to a friend that she obviously really wanted. [/quote]
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