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[quote=Anonymous]I do think a cheater can not do it again, but like PP said, it's rare. I cheated. In the aftermath of my actions and d-day, I realized that I never again wanted to be the type of person who thought those choices were okay, regardless of whether my H and I stayed together. One has to look in the mirror and recognize, "I'm the bad guy in this situation." And many people will do/think almost anything to avoid that fact. One has to do a lot of introspection; my H called it "peeling the onion." I peeled my onion until there was nothing left. But unfortunately most cheaters don't want to do the actual work to become a healthier person. My H and I are still together, 15+ years after d-day. We now have kids. I am a much healthier and more authentic person. My H worked on himself too, though my choices in reality had nothing to do with him. We turn toward each other instead of away. I do wish we could have gotten here though without all of the pain I caused.[/quote]
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