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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]19:46 and I’m adding to my post to give you some of my go to words that I use. I realize it can be hard to say no if pushy people are pressing you. You don’t have to give reasons other than this. This is more than you even need to say but I realize you are trying to be more assertive. These work to say no for work asks or social get togethers. Fewest words possible. I’m not available. No, I can’t make it No, I won’t be able to do that. For many parties I’ve said - thanks for the invite but I have other plans that day. [/quote] Yep, once you say "because" you're telling them it's negotiable if they can negate your reason. If you say you can't because you'll be out of town this weekend, they'll say you can do it next weekend, etc.[/quote]
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