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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The fact he has to earn sex is not going to bode well. That is like him saying I will do more aroung the house every time you have sex with me. Using sex to manipulate and get what you want isn't a healthy relationship.

You guys should work with someone if you want this to last. I think your wants are excessive and your holding sex over his head as something he only gets if he earns it is really nasty.

Sex should be someone you both want together. You ant him to spend money on you and give you time alone - both things that are only about you. But all he gets in return is you will allow him access to your body if he spends enough money and leaves you alone for enough hours[/quote]

This is my take.  There is nothing wrong about wanting date nights.  DH and I make sure we have a couple a month.  But something about the way the OP is written just makes me think this won't end well. Making stuff transactional like this just never seems like a good idea.  He should want to have date nights and not just because he will get to have sex.  And she should want to have sex without him spending money on her.  [/quote]

Sorry if I’m not explaining it well. He doesn’t need to spend money to have sex. We have had a lot of sex before and some after baby that doesn’t involve date nights. I’m really craving that time together where I feel like ourselves. I don’t ever get dressed up now and I think getting dressed up and sexy for him will help with being in the mood. It’s not transactional. He doesn’t have to earn sex. I want this on top of giving him what he needs. [/quote]

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