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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]2 date nights a month is totally and completely reasonable.

Especially with ONE kid, one weekday evening and one chunk of a weekend day of alone time is also super reasonable. That may go down a bit if you have a second, particularly for the first few months.

I would just say that if you’re pushing for 100% of what you want, you should absolutely do 100% of what he wants. If he’s saying every other day sex, you should meet him on that. If you want him to compromise on sex frequency, you’re going to need to compromise on date nights.

Also - you prob need to do the leg work on the date nights (babysitter logistics, at least ideas for activities, reservations, etc)[/quote]

Oh and PP here to add - what we do is have both designated out of the house date nights, and designated inside the house date nights. Inside the house - no babysitter needed, but we only do the bare minimum of chores and otherwise spend it together - cuddling, watching TV, board games (we’re big board gamers so this is a big thing for us), sometimes sex. That’s a cheap and easy way to get quality time and having the designated night works really well. (For us it’s Monday night date night at home, every other Friday date night out)[/quote]

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