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[quote=Anonymous]Read her cues. She may not be able to handle long visits. I agree with advice of taking her outside, asking her stories from her youth and maybe recording them if she gives permission. Maybe bring a favorite food or old photos. Just look for signs of stress or fatigue too. Better to keep things short and sweet than to think it's your obligation to stay even if she looks tired, confused, agitated or overwhelmed. Also, do not take her out of the facility. It is comforting to be in familiar surroundings. Do not disrupt her routine too much. If she is eating with friends, wait until she is done and then visit. If there is an activity she enjoys there, visit until then and let her go to it. Routine brings comfort.[/quote]
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